Intro

We named our blog “Raising Mustard Seeds” after the famous parable in Matthew’s Gospel. We had some mustard seeds of our own laying dormant in our hearts, and finally, the year before our marriage, we began to let those seeds grow. Our journey with Christ hasn’t always been easy, but it has bore more fruit than we could possibly imagine. And through the mustard seeds He planted in our hearts, He opened them to receive little mustard seeds of our own…

While Jesus in this parable is talking about how faith and our relationship with God should grow from something very small to something mighty and powerful, it’s applicable to our children as well. It is our hope that through prayer and proper parenting, our children will grow from small and helpless (tiny mustard seeds) to being mighty in Christ, so that they will be shining lights in the world and people will come to “dwell in the branches” of their faith.

So, this is our little space in the big internet where we will share our most likely crazy experiences as we start our family and we hope those who are close to us will enjoy laughing at us and with us, and maybe even learn something new :)

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

How to Pants Shop with an Infant

**edit--the title should really be "how to successfully pants shop with an infant who needs to be held all the time" lol. Obviously, you can put a kid in a stroller if they'll tolerate it, or in a cart if you need one! Its sometimes hard to snag big dressing rooms for carts and strollers though, so this could still apply :-) **

For the past couple of years, the majority of my wardrobe has revolved around leggings/tights, dresses, flats, and boots. It was simple. In the winter, wear leggings and boots with dresses. In the summer, just wear them with flats or sandals. I LOVED it. I love the simplicity of throwing on a dress and looking like a well put together human.

Well. In my attempts at modesty, all said dresses have higher necklines. Unfortunately, with a breastfeeding infant, pulling my entire dress up to NIP (nurse in public) TOTALLY throws the whole "modesty" down the toilet. Plus ummm that would be super awkward. AND that also means I can't pull the top down, either, unless I want to rip the fabric or stretch the neckline out to epic-ly ugly proportions.

It's sad. I feel like giving my dresses a mini-funeral. But you know what? It's a different season of my life, and I will be in "baby-making/birthing/breastfeeding" mode for the next number of however many years so I'm retiring and donating most of those adorable dresses, and it's really OK. And for real, I do have some kick butt skirts that I love to wear so I am not totally out of luck, but this summer, I have a feeling that I will be chasing a little cute monster everywhere, so I need to be able to get on the floor and play, etc.

What that means though, is that I need to do some shopping specifically for some good summery shorts/capris. I recently started keeping a budget again using an app called the "Easy Envelope Budget App" (EEBA--available for free on both Android and Apple devices--it's pretty great!) and I set our "clothing" limits for the year very low because we're saving for a house. In short, I need shorts, and I need 'em cheap. Pardon the pun. :-)

I decided to do some hunting at Goodwill with Gianna. Shopping was uber successful. I went home with blue capris from Old Navy (casual) and dress capris from Ann Taylor for $8. Holla for a balla! Wow that was lame. Anyhow, I wanted to pass along my shopping adventure success strategy.

Here's how you do it:
0. Wear a skirt (this makes sense later)
1. Wear baby in k'tan
2. Bounce and walk and shop
3. Know your size (obviously with brands it can be +/- 1 size, but you know what I mean...) and find cute stuff in said size
4. Go to dressing room. Yes. You must and can try the clothes on.
5. Hike skirt up and push up under k'tan.
6. Put on pants very carefully by putting legs in holes and squatting to pick up pants to fasten. (baby will probably be asleep by that time...bending over=no no...don't want to rock the boat lol)
7. Examine yourself in mirror, and remove very carefully by dropping pants to floor, removing feet, and kicking up into hand.

BLAM. You just went pants shopping while wearing a sleeping baby. Win!

Monday, April 22, 2013

This Month in Gianna-Land: 3 months old!



March 21-April 21 was a pretty big month for Gianna. She’s “gotten older” in so many ways and we have had so much fun!

 *insert obligatory ridiculous faced pictures of Gianna*
 
 


  • Gianna can roll over from back to belly. Okay, she’s been able to do this (I suspected) for a while, but randomly one morning she just flopped right over on the floor twice in a row. Too quick for me to get the camera, but Chris got to see it so that was great. The whole thing was pretty surprising, given that she has an enormous fluffy butt that is like an anchor and makes her less mobile (it’s our plan for keeping her down LOL).
  • Some chubbikins (we won’t mention names) has almost outgrown her infant insert for the baby bathtub. She likes to kick her legs outside. 
 Her very first bath, February 1. My little scrawny chicken! And by scrawny, I of course mean, larger than an average baby, lol. My terms are obviously off. 
 
 March 26

April 9

  • We survived Holy Week at church. Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and Easter Sunday Masses FTW! Gianna got a “B-“ on Holy Thursday because she was hungry as soon as we got to Mass and I nursed her in the pew and was like the most obnoxious loud eater ever. Like, fat man eating at a Chinese buffet loud. Chris couldn’t stop laughing. She got a “B+” on Easter Sunday because she decided to use her “outside voice” and make adorable, although inappropriate, noises. Yes, we grade her for her Mass behavior. No, we’re not really serious. She’s pretty easy to take to Mass right now because I put her in the Baby K’tan and she falls asleep. 
 Asleep in the K'tan. Obviously not at church in this pic LOL
  • Gianna goes front facing (explorer position) in the K’tan now! She likes it, but only if she’s wide awake. If she’s sleepy she wants to be facing me and snuggled. It says not to do explorer position until the baby is “5+” months old, but she’s got great head/neck control, so we did it anyway.
 This is the "Explorer" position...except when I put Gianna in it, she's not gangly and crooked looking...
  • We started doing tummy time to work on her neck control and she gets like super excited to try to move and get to a toy. She also gets really frustrated when she can’t get to it. I can imagine how happy she will be when she can do more than tiny belly scoots forward. That’s when the childproofing will begin…
 
 

 

  • We also started using the Bumbo chair and that is super fun to put her in, even if only for  a few minutes at a time, until she starts slumping from being tired. If I want her to nap, I do a tummy-time/bumbo combo…it’s like a 1-2 punch for babies. Well, for Gianna at least. 
 
 
 I call this next series of pictures, "Baby Playing Poker"
 It looks like she's thinking, but she's really about to try to eat the cards
  
No joke, she was obsessed with the cards, it was fantastic!
 

  •  Gianna can pick things up now on her own! For a while, we would put something in her hand and the fact that she would look at it and move it around was exciting enough, but to make that connection between an object and hand was super cool to watch. I sensed a lot of baby pride (LOL baby-whisperer) when she finally did it. 

  •  Gianna likes her carseat. Yes. Well. Not all the time. But in general she will be pretty peaceful in it, especially now that she likes to look at the hanging things.
 See?!

  •  G has totally turned into a Chatty Cathy, she babbles and coos and all of those wonderful baby noises that I could listen to all day. I love having fake conversations with her. It really does seem like she understands (baby whisperer, again) sometimes!
 This girl looooooooooooves her papa!
 
 
 

  • In addition to baby talk, Gianna loves to sing! We sing together every day and I nearly always end up laughing. She gets entranced with song. Chris and I sing duets together to her. I hope she has a nice voice so we can sing together!
  • We started putting Gianna in her stroller without the carseat. She loves being able to look around!
  • Some little baby no longer likes to sit down when on our laps…she is all about standing. She locks her legs so I can’t sit her down. Whatever. It probably tires her out more easily so better for us anyway.
  • Baby Houdini has added another feat of baby mystery to her repertoire. For a while, she’s been able to somehow turn herself 90 degrees in a short period of time so that between the time I put her on the floor, go to the bathroom, and come back, she is laying perpendicular. Now, she Houdini’s her way out of her swaddle EVERY NIGHT! At let me tell you, we are master swaddlers now, and I can say with certainty that we “swaddle the crap out of her”. And yet, she somehow, between 10 pm and 3 am, she manages to wiggle out either one or both of her arms!
  • We've ventured out a lot more in the last month...trips to the park...to restaurants...visiting friends...to Houston...everything is starting to feel normal, and Gianna is easier to travel with. My mom and sister Breana visited last weekend and we went to the park...the weather was amazing! 
To sum up our last month with Gianna and lives right now? 3 words: Life is good.  :-)

Friday, April 19, 2013

An Elmo Love Story


In these last couple of weeks leading up to Gianna being 3 months old, she's really gotten a lot more active. She has started to try to grab things. Well not really thingf, per se, but in specific--Elmo! Out of anything I put in front of her that I shake or that makes noise, she only has eyes for Elmo. It's quite cute, it I do say so myself, but I think pretty much every noise, move, or look she makes is pure gold, so I lack impartiality. :-)

Wasssssssup, Elmo!


Elmo, no lies, you look pretty tasty.


I think I'll hold you...


...and kiss you...


...and eat you! Munch munch munch Elmo tastes yummy



The End

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Baby Prison Graduation + 3 Year Anniversary!!!

Oh you all know about our fondness of baby prison by now. We have these delightful "swaddleme" swaddles with velcro that keep Gianna snug as a bug at bed time. She is truly more calm when she's in "prison" and really likes it. Since she still has the startle reflex, it helps to keep her asleep at night when she's in and out of deep sleep.

She finally outgrew her "size 1" baby prisons a few weeks ago (they only go up to 14 lbs, and Gianna is tall and her legs were a bit crunched up inside and that tiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiicked her off), so I was happy to find "size 2" at a Target in League City when I was home visiting family.

I recently took pictures of her in her swaddle so that I could compare to earlier pictures and see how much she had grown. Yes, momma is gettin' all nostalgic already :-)

I thought I would share those pictures with you, too! (Yes, they're all bad quality and half too dark, as usual LOL)

January 2013:
 Gianna: WHAT IS THIS THING?!

 Gianna: Mmmmmmmmmmmm, cozy


 Gianna: My parents have no idea what they're doing.
Parents: Nope, sure don't!


Gianna: (while dreaming) SEE?!?!?! Look at this mess of a swaddle! Good thing by the time I'm awake I will have pulled my arms and hands freeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
Parents: If she would just be still.....we could...do...the...velcro right...maybe...?

 Gianna: Despite how bad my parents' swaddle failures are, this thing is pretty glorious
 
 Gianna: Can't.....stay......awake.....with swaddle............ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Parents: Suckaaaaaaa


March 2013
 Gianna: Swaddles rock!

 Gianna: Ummmmmm....this is getting a little tight...
Parents: Now we're swaddles pros and you can't escape!!! BWAHAHAHA


 April 2013
 Gianna: Ummmmmm Mom and Dad? Notice the LACK OF LEG ROOM!
Parents: Dang! Her shoulders don't fit anymore either....guess it's time to go shopping...

 
Gianna: NEW SWADDLES FTW!!!
Parents: NEW SWADDLES FTW!!!



And in other awesome news....today is our 3 year anniversary!!! Never in our wildest dreams did we picture ourselves with a little baby in 3 years, but God worked wonders in our hearts and now we wonder why we waited so long!!! April 9, 2010 was a pretty glorious day :-)

all images copyright BQ Images, 2010
 
 
 




And they lived happily ever after!